
A post from my little brother:
”how you guys deal with people who disrepect the music you play and listen??
well just wondering how u guys face people who give really degrading comments to you like ( that is noise, its not music and then just say that main stream music is like the real music) hrmmmm… welll i know thats why they called it main stream. well my band plays post hardcore and metalcore i know it has lots of screaming so sometimes its quite irritating . i know how it feels like cause the first time isnt always nice. but this has been going on for quite a long time and sometimes i felt like moral down on playing music anymore.
it does really affect me to like listen to the genre that i like. sometimes its difficult for me to listen to my own music at home for practice purposes as i live in the same room as my brother! he is such a nag. keep saying that my music is rubbish and like have my cousins and family members to mock me down with my music.
even if its like paul gilbert music also they will say so metal rubbish. lol.. hrmmm.. so yea hit me with what will ya guys do if u have a brother everyday mocking yur music that u listen to and play .
thanks =)
i need to let this off my chest of i would just smash the guitar at his laptop.
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all rock music is good,
as long it has feelings and passion.
yea thanks for the fast reply .. well my bro is now singing peterpan songs behind me like its K box.. hrmm .. lol.. not saying that peterpan is bad but sometimes i feel quite unfair as he can listen his music and sing it tone deaf while i cant even listen to mine and always tell me to off my music.. well yea should start investing in good headphones.
really thanks for the reply cause at least i feel like i am not alone anymore facing this kind of shit lol..
cheers mate
( why why why he can sing like k box while i cant play my guitar =( he is always doing that. i am gonna commit suicide someday. and when i told him he sings tone deaf he says that i also dunnoe to sing so yea . *shoots myself * )
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all rock music is good,
as long it has feelings and passion. ”
All i want to said to him was why play songs that so many people dunno how to like it? Ming has passion for music and is extremely fortunate to have his own jam room, drum set, keyboard and at least 2 guitars to learn his music. Yes, he has a jam room. The purpose of the jam room is for him to play his music peacefully! I wonder why should he play hardcore music when he cant even play simple songs well enough? I do want him to be really good at music so that maybe someday he can make loads of money with it. It might be a dream come true! If he is unable to make the simpler pop songs or slow rock songs, i really dun think he should play hardcore songs that he will get lesser feedback from. Of course, it was just what my thoughts and i am not forcing him to change anything.
Well, i understand that some music is just not for me to understand and it’s not just hardcore rock, jazz for example is also one genre that i dun understand. But i dont have any disrespect for people who play those music. Why do i sing Peterpan songs like in K box? haha.. of course la, i cant sing well and i just wanna enjoy singing. I started play songs first then Ming also decided he wants to listen to his songs. So too bad, we share the room! Wait for Abang to get married then you can have your own privacy.
Despite not understanding ur genre of music, yet we came to watch you perform for a gig. Only to be ignored and treated like as we are your fans waiting like idiots for an hour while you kept attending to your band mates who de-valued you in the end. We came to support you and some came despite having no money to buy a ticket. I sort of ”forced” you into apologising to me, but have you even have the thought of apologising to the rest?
Despite my passion for soccer, i will never allow soccer to destroy my relationship with my family and loved ones. I will never tolerate hearing anyone saying a single bad thing about people i love. Even if my loved one is in the wrong, i will defend him/her and act as a support to help overcome their mistakes in life.
No worries, if i was 3 years younger, i might be angry and take this little affair way too emotionally. Hurt will be the right word to describe how i feel. I had hurt you so now its fair. There shall be no more feedback about your music from me, as long as you dont disturb my boundary. You will realise someday that all of these doesnt matter at all. What matters is you have people who care a lot about you and have your best interests at heart. That’s all that matters...